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1. Reflective- dragon flies skimming over the water to take a sip are marvels if we slow down to appreciate them.
2. Passionate- militant advocate for my desires whether personal, emotional, sensual, or social.
3. Sympathetic/empathetic- capable of comprehending the condition of my lover and respond accordingly.
4. Uninhibited- freely express my inner desires.
5. All of the intelligences: thinking, speaking, listening, acting, cooperating, and making.
6. Problem solver- how shall we get this done together? Where do we go from here? Why is that? What is your vision?
7. Listener- tell me about it? Or in this case, tell me about what happiness is for you.
8. Comedic- I can find humor in many things. See #10 below.
9. In touch with my hard, darker side and romantically devout. Whether it be your hair wrapped around my fist to expose your delectable neck, or your soft voice so close to me. See, the passionate component in communication with the other sides.
10. Creative. Role playing including but not limited to female police officer and perturbed motorist:
You, “step out of the car, please.â€
Me, “what’s the problem officer?â€
You, “you’re speeding.â€
Me, “what’s the speed limit?â€
You, “30.â€
Me, “how fast was I going?â€
You, “90. Put your hands on the car.â€
(This is not an exclusive list. A joint list with you may be appropriate)
My flaws (can't just talk about the good points to the exclusion of reality): I can be disorganized; there are just too many projects that must be completed at this time. Sometimes I make mistakes because I am overwhelmed. I arrive late sometimes. Not because I don't respect others but because I space out. I compensate by calling ahead. I have a lot of questions, but not a lot of answers. If I seem like I don't understand you, check in and let me know what I'm missing. If it seems like I'm not doing something right, let me know so I can fix it.
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A creative, spontaneous, and expressive woman is precious.
I am not interested in whether you ski or collect antiques. Those are consumer goods and consumer activities. They are no substitute for your lover and no substitute for making love to your lover.
Hopefully, you are in touch. In touch with the world around you. In touch with the soul within you. In touch with the ways that we could make each other happy.
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