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about me

I've been in the lifestyle most of my life and have to say that I love it so. When playing with the right people, it is as fulfilling as it is satisfying. I am looking for a submissive who may not be that experienced, but wants to learn the right way. I have been through the fire and I know what it is to be a good man, honorable, firm, smart and given to bringing out the best in those I work with. I insist on you being a woman of caring demeanor and one who has a passion to learn. I will show you things you never thought possible and you WILL love it. I have learned many lessons about honor and now understand the true meaning of honesty. This is a very good thing. There are things in this world that are meant to be, just as there are mistakes made. It is my intention to be honest and straightforward, however, I will not post my checklist on a public site as I feel it is folly to do so. Not good for the goose and not good for the gander. I have a beautiful 1 year old daughter whom I love very much who is also the product of a D/s relationship. She doesn't live with me, but hopefully one day she will know the father who loves her. This in NO way means that I am a slack off as far as my responsibilities are concerned when it comes to my daugther, NO ONE comes before her. While I was involved with my slave of the time, it was one of the best things I'd ever had, but like everything, things change and for the better. I want to own one who knows how to be honest. I am looking for the ultimate intimacy, compassion and exchange that can be found in a relationship. Trust is paramount and I will NOT settle for deception. I want one who believes that she can contribute to what I have to offer, which is quite a bit. I want a slave/ sub that wants to learn, to give, to be whole and to know new worlds. Best case scenario would be long term, but we will have to see. I own my home and it is a perfect abode with which to discover new boundaries. I just recently came into some significant resources which will enable me to complete the package that was begun a very long time ago. This is a plus for me as well as for you. I have all the gear and know how needed to bring you exactly where you need to be. If you don't know what you want, that's ok. I can help you figure it out. In the long run, I will want another child, but it will have to be with the right one. I made that mistake once already and once is enough. My desire to have a family extends in many ways, not just through child bearing. I am not looking for a breader. Been there done that. I have a respectable job and am working on an encryption project which when funded, I will serve as the key developer. It ROCKS too and makes me very happy. I am also starting my Masters program at one of the top ten private universities in the western United States. Life is great overall and I am a very balanced and keyed in man. Although I take bondage quite seriously and do not partake in public play, I am really quite a bit of fun and will turn your head before you know it. Yes, I'm looking for fun... who isn't? But also something long term and serious. Age is not important to me and if anything I would have to say that I prefer younger women, mostly for the future I intend to have should things work favorably between us. I'm not looking for a harem. I am looking for long term, monogamous, faithful and honest. If you want the best, you will want to be with me. This is NOT an ego statement. It is merely a matter of who I am. My physical stature is at it's peak, my mind is sharp and my experience vast. I am VERY good at what I do and love being who I am. By the way, distance is of no importance to me. If you think you are far away, please don't let that be an issue to you. With modern travel the way it is, the East coast is only five hours away... enough time for a nap before you arrive. I don't say that to insinuate that I am shallow. I say that so that you will know that I am serious in finding the right one. Play is a good thing... R/T is better and 24/7 is the way. I will NOT limit my options in any way to get what I want. Should you? With that said, thanks for reading.

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