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Be The Rain
seeking: Women  interested in: Friends with Benefits, Online Flirting, Open To Relationship  
Age/Gender: 49 year old Man
Location: Santa Barbara , CA United States
Height: Ask me
Body Type: Athletic
Hair Color: Brown
Eye Color: Hazel
Race: White
Religion: Atheist
Languages: Ask me
Income: $150K and above
Profession: Other
Status: Divorced
about me
I'm on a mission to do two things in my life: the first is to be authentic -- with friends, colleagues, and my lover. The second is to understand as much about the universe (including -- especially -- myself) as possible. I've been told so many times that I'm a great catch -- I'm "stable" (what does that mean, exactly?) emotionally and financially, I'm smart, in great shape, and good-looking (so I'm told) -- but I find it hard to meet interesting, attractive women. I am a mixture: sophisticated but capable of being goofy; smart and successful, but not arrogant; a homebody, but I love to go out. Too good to be true? Probably, but maybe you're brave enough to find out... Here are a few adjectives that apply to me: Confident (but not arrogant)/ Warm/ Empathetic/ Goofy/ Serious/ Intelligent/ Introspective/ Articulate/ Sensitive/ Funny/ Generous/ Loving/ Always Learning/ Curious/ Tolerant/ Charming/ Sincere/ Earnest/ Considerate/ Successful/ Spontaneous/ Responsible/ Fit...well, at least that's a start... [Look at my username...] I've been an analytical-type all my life (scientist-turned entrepreneur), but I've recently been discovering the right side of my brain. (By the way, since so many of you ladies talk about chemistry being important, I'll let you know that, as a former chemistry professor, I agree! A little joke, that...) [...remove the first two letters...]Feeling very comfortable in my skin I have learned an enormous amount about myself in recent years, and am looking to share, learn, and improve with a lover. I'm starting to believe that there really can be a life you live after the one you learn by! [...add "0" at the end...] LIKES: Marx Brothers movies; Jazz; tennis; yoga; singing; wine; cooking; travelling; openness; intimacy; conversation; laughing and teasing; Lizst's B-minor piano sonata; Shakespeare (esp. performed); strong women; much more...the world is a wonderful place! [...and find me at the place that starts with "Y"...
about my fling
She must be warm, empathetic, smart (I'm not talking about formal education -- that's different), fun, positive, and care about keeping fit. To me, closeness absolutely requires vulnerability. I'm looking for a woman who knows that closeness and intimacy require letting down the defenses. Who can take the risk of exposing her heart, as I can, and will do. Someone who wants to live and love bravely. Someone I can make feel safe enough to discard the armor of defenses so that we can experience closeness and intimacy. I'm looking for someone to share the adventure and passion of life with, and to love and be loved with emotional abandon.



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