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| Age/Gender: |
49 year old Man |
| Location: |
Santa Barbara ,
CA United States |
| Height: |
Ask me |
| Body Type: |
Athletic |
| Hair Color: |
Brown |
| Eye Color: |
Hazel |
| Race: |
White |
| Religion: |
Atheist |
| Languages: |
Ask me |
| Income: |
$150K and above |
| Profession: |
Other |
| Status: |
Divorced |
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| about me |
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I'm on a mission to do two things in my life: the first is to be authentic -- with friends, colleagues, and my lover. The second is to understand as much about the universe (including -- especially -- myself) as possible. I've been told so many times that I'm a great catch -- I'm "stable" (what does that mean, exactly?) emotionally and financially, I'm smart, in great shape, and good-looking (so I'm told) -- but I find it hard to meet interesting, attractive women. I am a mixture: sophisticated but capable of being goofy; smart and successful, but not arrogant; a homebody, but I love to go out. Too good to be true? Probably, but maybe you're brave enough to find out...
Here are a few adjectives that apply to me: Confident
(but not arrogant)/ Warm/ Empathetic/ Goofy/ Serious/
Intelligent/ Introspective/ Articulate/ Sensitive/
Funny/ Generous/ Loving/ Always Learning/ Curious/
Tolerant/ Charming/ Sincere/ Earnest/ Considerate/
Successful/ Spontaneous/ Responsible/ Fit...well, at
least that's a start... [Look at my username...] I've
been an analytical-type all my life (scientist-turned
entrepreneur), but I've recently been discovering the
right side of my brain. (By the way, since so many of
you ladies talk about chemistry being important, I'll
let you know that, as a former chemistry professor, I
agree! A little joke, that...) [...remove the first two
letters...]Feeling very comfortable in my skin I have
learned an enormous amount about myself in recent
years, and am looking to share, learn, and improve with
a lover. I'm starting to believe that there really can
be a life you live after the one you learn by! [...add
"0" at the end...] LIKES: Marx Brothers movies; Jazz;
tennis; yoga; singing; wine; cooking; travelling;
openness; intimacy; conversation; laughing and teasing;
Lizst's B-minor piano sonata; Shakespeare (esp.
performed); strong women; much more...the world is a
wonderful place! [...and find me at the place that
starts with "Y"... |
| about my fling |
She must be warm, empathetic, smart (I'm not talking about formal education -- that's different), fun, positive, and care about keeping fit. To me, closeness absolutely requires vulnerability. I'm looking for a woman who knows that closeness and intimacy require letting down the defenses. Who can take the risk of exposing her heart, as I can, and will do. Someone who wants to live and love bravely. Someone I can make feel safe enough to discard the armor of defenses so that we can experience closeness and intimacy. I'm looking for someone to share the adventure and passion of life with, and to love and be loved with emotional abandon.
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