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seeking: Couples, Women  interested in: Experimenting, Threesomes+, Friends with Benefits, Online Flirting, Open To Relationship  
Age/Gender: 63 year old Man
Location: Metairie , LA United States
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about me
At 61 I am now looking for new friends, that will not be concerned that I might become a nuance. I am quite cordial and understand that some may worry that as a newly single man, I could become clingy. My wife and I had that experience in the past, we found it to be awkward to explain that we needed to limit our time with that person. I would never want any friend(s) to have that feeling about widower61. While we were married the past 34 years (YHO) we enjoyed the friendship of many in the lifestyle, some married others single. I am now looking to become a friend that you will enjoy being with. If you want to know about my wife, we will discuss her but I will not constantly be talking about her too the point of becoming boring. She is a very pleasant memory in my life, now life starts a new phase with new friends.
about my fling
I hope not to bore you, but I feel a little history needs to be told first. I married my wife ( lover, partner, subbie & BEST FRIEND ) just over 34 years ago. We had all of the usual life experiences with the ups and downs that everyone has, also we had what I feel are the most intense pleasures that can be had by two friends that happen to be married to each other. While I have at times had the need to relieve stress, she was ready to be that outlet. I always did my best to not push the pain buttons too hard, she never did use her safe word. We also made friends along the way in the swingers community, which brought pleasure to all present for the experiences. ( Once in a while the occasional OBNOXIOUS drunk popped up but we avoided them in the future. ) While I have always been the straight 8, she enjoyed the soft beautiful body of other women as much as I do ( or we did together ). As is said all too often in life the good times come to an end. That happened a little over six years ago, than I became her caregiver after the stroke that changed our lives, She was no longer able to get her body to perform in the same ways again. It was virtually impossible to have vanilla sex anymore, and since she could not have that enjoyment, I felt that to ask her to be my toy, ( sexually, submissively, target of my wrath, or loaned out slut ) was not a justified thing to do. She did tell me to go out with the friends that we still had, ( it is amazing how many people can not get past a change in ones life of that nature ) but between the limited time that I could be away from her and naturally Hurricane Katrina ( the worst ***** in history ) I lost all contact with all except one person, and of course that is a male. Now another illness has brought her life to the crossing over point. I know that we will be together again in the blink of an eye for her, but it could seem to be a long-long time for myself. Now I start the search for those of you that have enough confidence



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