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seeking: Women  interested in: Threesomes+, Friends with Benefits  
Age/Gender: 40 year old Man
Location: London , UK001 United Kingdom
Height: Ask me
Body Type: A few extra pounds
Hair Color: Brown
Eye Color: Blue
Race: White
Religion: Agnostic
Languages: English, French
Income: $100-150K
Profession: Computer
Status: Widowed
about me
I asked a female friend how she thought I ought to describe myself on here in a way that was both honest and also likely to attract positive attention. She said "you're intelligent, articulate, thoughtful, considerate, caring, communicative, well-educated, and well-spoken". She also went on to say that I was "cultured"... to which my response was "bollocks!" :-) But I suspect what she meant by that was that I prefer less noisy ways of spending time - dining out, the odd pub, theatre, cinema, watching comedy - while having a strong dislike of frenetic, loud activities like rock concerts or "clubbing". (Clubbing is my idea of Hell!) So yeah, I guess I am intelligent, and knowledgeable. I can be very logical and analytical (my degree was in Physics, for example) but I'm also quite imaginative: I've dabbled in creative writing over the years, and very nearly became a professional actor. You can usually rely on me to have an unusual perspective on most questions. I'm pretty easy-going: it is impossible to shock me (but you're very welcome to try! :->). My sense of humour could probably be described as "off-beat"; I enjoy well-observed satire, and absurdist laughs. I'm not a great socialiser: I prefer talking to people one on one rather than in groups, and I sometimes find parties a bit of a trial. I don't like loud music. Sexually I tend to dominance; it's something I have quite a bit of experience with and would like to explore more, but definitely not to the point that "vanilla" sex no longer interests me. I'm not what you'd call athletic or supple; but perhaps I make up for it by being erotically imaginative and considerate. I live in Walthamstow (England, London, E17).
about my fling
So much depends on whether I like you or not. :-) I don't really have a preferred physical type. I tend to like people who are open-minded and not prejudiced. I have a low tolerance for sloppy thinking: what you believe may be less important than whether you've thought it through properly. I strongly dislike tobacco smoke. The reason I'm on this site is because I'm strange. :-) The more I like a woman, the more I tend to be attracted to her. That might not sound controversial, but I think it's rare. For most men, the ONLY thing that makes a woman attractive is what she looks like. For quite a lot of women, it's the same: all they care about is a good male body. Many of the rest *are* attracted to personalities - but, for them, being friends with a man, and being romantically or erotically involved with him, are completely different things. Not for me: the more I like a woman, the better friends we are, the more I tend to fancy her. I've had friends that I've slept with, and friends that I haven't slept with; being friends and being lovers are, at most, two different points on the same scale for me. So I'm looking for a woman who feels the same way: that being friends and sleeping together are not mutually exclusive. :-) I also don't have a problem with "no strings" sex if that's what you're looking for. Another aspect of feeling this way is that, just because I'm friends with one woman doesn't mean I stop liking other people; that, in turn, means that I'm not instinctively monogamous. Insisting that a partner should not sleep with anyone else has always struck me as being as bizarre as insisting that they shouldn't have any friends besides you. I'm not that possessive: I wouldn't *dream* of trying to prevent you from meeting other men just because you sometimes spend time in bed with me. And I would like the same freedom in return.



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