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"The advantages of the emotions is that they lead us astray." ~~Oscar Wilde
seeking: Couples, Women  interested in: Threesomes+, Friends with Benefits, Open To Relationship  
Age/Gender: 51 year old Man
Location: New York , NY United States
Height: Ask me
Body Type: A few extra pounds
Hair Color: Light brown
Eye Color: Hazel
Race: White
Religion: Other
Languages: English
Income: Ask me
Profession: Self employed
Status: Divorced
about me
INTERESTS: Esoterica media yoga linguica fiction sex mythology art genetics peoplewatching NYC architecture sex spirituality pets anime scifi sex smart-ass humor science comics magik sex psychology *ORAL SEX* & sex.(Long slow oral sessions where you not only may completely lose track of what time of day it is, but also may temporarily forget your own name...) DISINTERESTS: Real pain or humiliation of any kind/water sports/anal sex. Also: Fashion[except as entertainment]finance cars sports or why YOUR religion is MY Answer. I am a basic model jeans & flannel shirt 420-loving not-entirely-ex hippie kinda guy(with some nice under-the-hood freelance evolutionary intelligence agent[slash]spiritual warrior retro-fits),who generally finds more in common with sub-&counter-culture types than with the mainstream. I have had experience in various alternative types of relationships esscapade/open/ multiple/handyman/light bondage/live-in babysitter/chaotic neutral catalyst/strange attractor/ad hoc sex therapist/hide the shoehorn inna corner...]as well as more mundane kinds[5 years of marriage/numerous occasionally luminous friendships(both with & without benefits)with various remarkable women]. I am sex-positive/open-minded/test regularly & personally het(tho you *definitely* don't need to be--the most amazing partners I've ever had have almost always been bi women.(Any thoughts on why that might be?) I browse personals ads for signs of intelligent life/write/sell stuff on eBay/attempt home repair/believe 7 impossible things before breakfast(& even more before I wake up)/prefer Cherry Coke/enjoy walking my dog inna park/close the lid/rarely arrive on time & clean up halfway human. All worshippers of Mad Emperor George II (if there are any left...), please--this way to the egress... Call me Sam. ~~Sam_Thoth [PS: You can pull me by the same handle where the male is muy caliente.]
about my fling
Location Location Location. I Live in Northern Manhattan. TURNONS:Willing flesh/a lively mind/a shining heart.I value intelligence creativity kindness empathy beauty skill independence an open mind liveliness passion & anyone who has something interesting to say on any topic.(I should maybe want someone dull unattractive mean rigid inarticulate clingy & passionless?)Extra points to an animal lover.(I have a remarkable all-white Akita/shepherd & some wily cats.)And a little shameless lack of inhibition never hurts! TURNOFFS:Empathic indifference/bigotry/scorn[as opposed to witty sarcasm]/ willful ignorance/a curdled soul/blithe cultural chauvinism/posessive jealousy/skindeep depth/mindless rigidity/lack of self-respect & habitual manipulativeness. Also:I don't believe in "ideal" people.You shouldn't either. Prince Charming and those guys are *fairy tales*.Everyone is unique, everyone has flaws; and, very often, humans beings are worth knowing as much for their flaws & imperfections as for those qualities which it might be easier to admire.It takes all of these things to make us who we are.Every REAL person brings their own mix of unexpected indefinables to the table & deserves to be considered "as is", instead of against some perfect "ideal". Then there's the "chemistry" random factor, which can either keep apart people who seem to be a perfect match on paper, or draw together people who otherwise may have nothing in common at all. Even lacking that crucial sexual chemistry, making a new friend can still be good thing.If a woman doesn't show interest early on in a relationship, I generally assume that BAS[best available scenario]is that I might make a new friend-without-benefits.(Best of all possible worlds:A smart funny bi chick to ogle other women with...!) So: While making a new friends is always nice, making out with a new friend can be even nicer; and helping a new friend squeal with orgasmic delight can be just... *heavenly*! ~~S



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