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40 y/o SWM dz free, divorced looking for NSA fun or more?
seeking: Women  interested in: Friends with Benefits, Online Flirting, Open To Relationship  
Age/Gender: 44 year old Man
Location: Seattle , WA United States
Height: Ask me
Body Type: Average
Hair Color: Brown
Eye Color: Hazel
Race: White
Religion: Christian
Languages: English, Spanish
Income: Ask me
Profession: Executive/Management
Status: Divorced
about me
Preface: Please, if you are one of those cute (or ugly) ladies that provide fee for service chat sessions to guys while they get their “happy ending” to your image on-line, don’t bother. I don’t see the point in paying you to help me do something I can do for free. Sorry, not meant to be rude, just pragmatic. I am just getting back in to the dating scene after a nearly 4-year period of time in which I… Moved back to Seattle from Chicago, was celibate (mostly), found the Lord, made a conscious effort to reduce the drink and stop feeling sorry for myself, focused on my work, fly-fishing, golf game, and trying to figure out who I was and what I wanted to be when I grew up. All of this was following a very toxic and f’d up marriage and divorce. That being said, I have come a long way towards ridding myself of the anger and otherwise unhealthy emotions that followed. I’ve learned that it doesn’t pay to harbor bitterness and resentments in your heart as they will consume your very soul. I will not throw bricks at anyone I’ve been with, deserving or not. It takes two to tango and I was by no stretch anyone’s imagination perfect or blameless. I am not interested in your past relationships, with the exception of understanding what it is you are looking for in a new one. I am not at all into, and really don't care to hear the, “When I was with my ex He used too…” kind of banter. Big turn off for me and I try not to live in the past, as there is no good that can come from it. I am a kind-hearted, attentive, easy-going and non-judgmental man. I am well-read and pay attention to current events in the world and not oblivious to my immediate surroundings nor am I ignorant. I don’t pretend to know everything either. I could give a rip about the lives and tribulations of celebrities. I don’t live to watch TV. I am not a control freak. Your business is your business and mine is mine and until I'm in a committed relationship, I would
about my fling
You are witty, funny, a good conversationalist and don’t sit at home all day watching Jerry Springer and the like on TV. No offense meant, Jerry. It’s just not my idea of quality programming. You like the outdoors and don’t mind getting your boots dirty and the occasional roll in the tall grass. (Think a Fleetwood Mac song!) You enjoy and appreciate the arts and culture, sporting events, bike rides, etc. You don’t have to be entertained and are okay with an easy silence between us without constantly asking, “What are you thinking?” or “What’s the matter?” Trust me, you might not always want to what I have rolling around in my head! You are uninhibited in the bedroom, or anywhere else for that matter. I am not a “nookie at 9PM, come get it if you want it”, kind of guy. I dig spontaneity and imagination! You are not selfish and expecting me to be a sugar daddy, and you are not relying on someone to provide for you or your children. You are a woman who dresses and acts like one when appropriate and is comfortable in a gown for black-tie to grubby jeans and sweats. You won’t complain about me playing golf or going fly-fishing, though you are more than welcome to join me. You are free thinking, and opinionated; though not overbearing in a bombastic or bitchy way. I do not need a Mother. Please don't try to change everything about me and I will not be critical of you. You don’t throw out questions along the likes of - "do these jeans make by ass look fat?" Historically, questions like that are loaded and soon to be smoking guns, and I will usually answer them in the safest way possible while easing towards the nearest exit. We need to be connected at a level that we trust each other and not fear being honest with each other for fear of being ripped apart for it. You are fit and not a couch potato though it’s okay on those stormy grey days every once in a while. I’m not a Brad Pitt knock-off or ugly. I’m easy on the



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