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about me

I consider myself important; so are my friends, especially if they are in trouble. I have a tender heart, but I know how to establish and keep personal boundaries. I am empathetic and compassionate, but I also believe that it's best if people solve their own problems and learn to take care of themselves, if they are able. I am deeply moved by the needs of others, but I know that if I don't take good care of myself, I'll wind up being of no use to anyone (consider it thoughtful compassion). I strive to be fair and sensible, taking care of others while also taking care of myself. For those who are ruled by tender-hearted compassion, my more diplomatic response to problems might seem too cool, too focused on fairness and not filled enough with sympathy and selflessness. The more people get to know me, the more they will appreciate my thoughtful compassion for others and its compliment in the sensible ways I take good care of myself. I think like an artist. Or better, I SEE like an artist. While most people look at life's straight lines, its height and depth and width, I’m bending the lines with my imagination and turning black and white into shades of blue and yellow. I can, if I must, think in conventional ways. But left on my own, I'll usually opt for the eccentric or avant-garde; in fact I’m usually bored with what everyone else is comfortable with. I learn from reading, talking, watching people and other fauna and flora, and simply sitting in the soft chair of my mind and wondering how people would learn how to count if they could only use uneven numbers. I am out in front of conventional ideas, bravely originally defining true and false, right and wrong, the good, the bad and the ugly. I drive through life faster than the speed limit, and when I hit speed bumps, and I hit a lot of them with my mind distracted from the straight line ahead my wheels leave the ground. I think well, and even my wildest fancies have their roots in the deep soil of sound ideas and teste

about my fling

I'm looking for a girl who will drink me under the table in a cocktail dress, a girl who's wild enough to dance topless on a table at a bar, and she knows how to turn heads in heels for a night out on the town. You need to be the type of girl who has no problems exploring her wild side, and who is so uninhibited that you can make me blush on occasion. I won't put up with any of this "looking at me with innocent eyes, acting as if that devil on your shoulder isn't whispering all the naughty things you want to do with me in your ear." When you get an urge, you had better follow it.