Fling - World's Best Personals For Adults
brendalee007 Want to meet this member?
Join now!
seeking: Men  interested in: Experimenting, Friends with Benefits, Online Flirting, Open To Relationship  
Membership:SILVER Member
Age/Gender: 44 year old Woman
Location: Daphne , AL United States
Height: Ask me
Body Type: A few extra pounds
Hair Color: Blonde
Eye Color: Blue
Race: Native American, White
Religion: Other
Languages: Other
Income: Less than $25K
Profession: Other
Status: Widowed
about me
I am a widow, yes. But I'm not desperate. I'm not looking for a free ride or someone to bail me out of my life. I'm just learning how to make it out in the world again. I've lost a lot this year. Not just financially, but emotionally, and I've been hurt deeply. I need to be with someone who can love me for me. I've lost 50 lbs since my husband died of cancer in June 2009. I was married for 19 years and with him for 23. When I marry again, it's for keeps. I believe that if God gives me a treasure, a man worth his weight in gold, then it's my job to make him realized the value he has in my eyes, to treat him as a gift and a blessing and be everything he needs. I have learned that I should never pray that God will change a man, but that He will make me into what I need to be for God and for my spouse. I had a very hard marriage. We were separated a lot due to his verbal abuse and the many women I caught him with. I can't tolerate that again. I know when to hold you close and when to let you breathe and have your space. But I am very intuitive and can read people very well for the most part. When it seems that I haven't read someone well and they take advantage, it's not because I didn't know they were doing something wrong. It's because I forgive so quickly and overlook flaws in people. I really don't care if you are rich. I came on this site because I was on another site and I thought that maybe this would at least help me find a decent man. I have talked to many men online and been treated like either a whore, fool or plain idiot. I am far from either. I love to a fault and yes, I'm lonely...but I didn't lose my brains when I became a widow. Many have tried scamming me and I've busted them all. 18 at last count. LOL I have two teenagers who don't live with me. Nothing I did. Not bad parenting. I don't do drugs, not an alcoholic, don't bring scores of men home. My daughter is 17 and married. This was a parental and very hard choice but I feel it was right for her and
about my fling
I need someone amazing in every way! prefer tall men...at least taller than me! Healthy, non-smoker or at least minimal smoker. Drinking is ok as long as it's not all of the time...married an alcoholic. Not going there again. I'm wanting to marry and not play. I want a couple of kids. Yes, I can still have them! But mostly, I want respect. I know it's a sin to have pre-marital sex but I really don't care. If we hit it off, it's pretty much a must for me. Some men are horrible in bed! I want to be treated like I matter. Call me back...don't leave me hanging and wondering if we are an item or going out again. I tire of that quickly. I respect your busy life but either make me a part of it or keep me notified and stick to your plans when we make them. You need to be yourself so I can fall in love with you and not a lie. I love to take care of my man and make him feel like he's my world, because he is! I have a harsh mouth at times but mostly, I'm a soft-spoken lady and I want to mold into your life and melt into your arms. I am very sexual but not in public. PDA's are great but I won't embarrass you, either! Please, don't be a lazy lover! I give as good as I get and I hope you know what that means! Anyway, let me know what you think. I do need contact and if you live far away, we'd have to work something out because I don't want to be lonely. If we have an understanding, I am very faithful. But I do need that first! Please have good teeth and pleasant breath! Smell is a very big thing with me! I love the way a man smells but too much cologne or body odor is disgusting! I hope I fit your ideas...I hope I find the one who is for me here. I'm sure both of us are much deeper than anything I just said in any sentence!