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seeking: Men  interested in: Experimenting, Open To Relationship  
Age/Gender: 38 year old Woman
Location: Phoenix , AZ United States
Height: Ask me
Body Type: A few extra pounds
Hair Color: Blonde
Eye Color: Blue
Race: White
Religion: Ask me
Languages: English
Income: Ask me
Profession: Ask me
Status: Married
about me
Is there a man on this planet who isn't looking to lie and manipulate their way into a one-night stand?? I'm about ready to give up on this search of mine.... I'm about as straighforward and honest as they come. I'm sure that sounds odd coming from a married woman looking to have an affair...but if we can't be honest here, then where can we? I have a great home life, just lacking spark and frequency in the bedroom. I am looking for a long-term committed FWB arrangement. Friendship and trust will be key in the beginning. If you are looking to quickly "hook-up", then I'm not your girl. I'm willing to put in the effort to makes sure that I find the right partner in crime. I've had 4 sexual partners in the past 15 years (my husband included). I DO NOT sleep around and I'm not interested in someone that does. Once we establish a mutual "commitment" and understanding, then let the fun begin :-) I am extremely spontaneous, playful, silly, but also very sensitive and don't want to be treated like a piece of meat. I would like someone that I can communicate with regularly and see at least once a week if possible. NOTE: I will not email or text my picture. I am well known in my community and it would be foolish for me to put myself in that kind of risk. If you're willing to take a few minutes out of your day to meet me in person, then so am I.
about my fling
So who is this "Mr. Right"? If you've read this far, then you may be him. Here are some of my MUST HAVES and LIKES. MUST: LIVE IN PHOENIX METRO - BE 35-45 - MARRIED - SPONTANEOUS - DISEASE AND DRUG FREE - THOUGHTFUL IN WORDS AND ACTIONS - 5'10"+ - WILLING TO BECOME MONOGAMOUS WITH ONE "PLAY" PARTNER - HEIGHT/WEIGHT PROPORTIONATE - SENSE OF HUMOR - HAVE STRENGTH AND STAMINA IN THE BEDROOM - BE AVAILABLE TO MEET DAYTIMES LIKES: HAVE KIDS - TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY - BE "UP" FOR AN OVERNIGHT TRIP WITH ME TO OTHER PARTS OF AZ - AN ADVENTUROUS SPIRIT Wow...still here? LOL Sexually, I can vary from a sweet, gentle lover to a crazy rip-your-clothes-off type of lover...just depends on how worked up I am and how much time and privacy we have ;-) I am looking for a certain amount of emotional attachment and I think that for a long-term arrangement to work, there must be an emotional connection and understanding. Not a stage-five clinger deal, but enough to develop a relationship that contains both passion and trust. Please do not be looking for an "out" for your current situation, as I certainly will not leave mine. Now, and this is IMPORTANT, I have serious body issues. My "few extra pounds" listing means that I am at a normal weight for my height, but I'm working to lose about 8 pounds :-) However, gravity and age are no friends of mine and my body..although proportionate to my height...is less than beautiful. If you're looking for a gal that's going to throw her clothes off and walk around in front of you naked, keep on looking. I'm not that gal. Be honest with yourself here...if a tight body is important to you, then please don't waste your time or mine. IF YOU ARE SLEEPING YOUR WAY THROUGH "CANDIDATES" PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME!