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about me

"There is more to sex appeal than just measurements.I don't need a bedroom to prove my womanliness.I can convey just as much sex appeal, picking apples off a tree or standing in the rain." -Audrey Hepburn.A real woman has standards & scars.What I am worth to you depends on your own perception.Because I am a single mother with a career I cannot be as spontaneous as I'd like to be or have alot of time,but when you do get to take me out I am a blast.My dating experience is very limited & am learning so you'll have to cut me a break sometimes,but at least I am not used & abused.I have had 2 long term relationships that failed,& both would agree that I am a handful,but they both say that I am the best friend they ever had & their biggest regret is losing me.I may seem to have high standards sometimes,but I hold myself to them as well.I want a man who can take me out & show me a good time on classy dates,but I do not need anyone to take care of or support me.I may give you hell sometimes behind closed doors if you cross a line,but I won't ever disrespect you in public no matter how upset I am because I don't ever shame my people.It takes me awhile to trust,but if you hang on patiently,I will come out of my shell to show you that I do have a heart of gold.I was raised by,& am surrounded by good people,so even if I want you,I don't need you.If you smother me I will run.If you play games or act like you don't care,I will drop you like you're hot.If you don't take the time to warm me up,I will freeze.Some of you are thinking "Damn,she sounds like work!"Lol.I am a little soldier guys,but if your Mama did a good job with you,then you should do just fine if you are lucky enough to get a shot.The best apples are at the top of the tree boys,& that means you gotta climb.Don't want to put in the effort?Then grab you one of the easy bruised apples on the ground,but don't wonder why you are getting sub quality.I have been through it & worked hard to build a life for myself & loved one

about my fling

This is where I'll explain what I am looking 4...a companion to casually but consistently date.Someone who I am attracted to physically & mentally,who will develop into at least a genuine friendship with mutual respect.No expectations except 2 enjoy eachother's company & have fun.If U R looking 4 a few flings with my body,or are on the hunt 4 your soul mate then we R not compatible.I am VERY busy & cannot deal with someone who needs constant attention,& someone who is not interested in caring enough 2 know what kind of person I am is a waste of time 4 me.Anything more or less than a few calls or texts a week & a few outings a month is not ideal 4 me.This may be all it will ever be,or it could turn into something more.Whatever it ends up being should be natural & take it's own course.If all I wanted was sex all I gotta do is walk outside...& if I wanted a husband I'd go 2 church.So with that said,let's explore all of the experiences & beautiful places this world has to offer those who want 2 make the most of life 2 C where it takes us...make me say that I never had it so good ;)