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| Membership: | SILVER Member |
| Age/Gender: |
41 year old Woman |
| Location: |
Pittsford ,
NY United States |
| Height: |
Ask me |
| Body Type: |
Petite |
| Hair Color: |
Blonde |
| Eye Color: |
Hazel |
| Race: |
White |
| Religion: |
Christian |
| Languages: |
English |
| Income: |
$75-100K |
| Profession: |
Ask me |
| Status: |
Divorced |
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| about me |
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41 year old divorced mother of 2 handsome and energetic boys (2 and 6) In search of someone preferably in the same situation so they understand "the kid" thing. I am financially able to stay at home with the baby and return to work when he starts school. Translation: you don't have to pay for me. I own my own home and the boys are with me 50% of the time so I have a social life now!
I work out 6-7 times per week as it helps keep me sane.. I said it helps. I don't spend a lot of money on things but if you let me loose in a spa it will get ugly fast! I love to be pampered but have often been referred to as one of the guys. I don't smoke and if you do consider it a deal breaker. I don't need a father for my boys, they have one and he is a good one (ish). I do need someone with an open heart who will love them as if they're own (if we get there) I will do the same and have, my X has a daughter that I am still in contact with and her mother is one of my closest friends!
I liked being married. Just not to who I was married to. Not a marriage hater, want to get married again. Feel like I'm too old to have more kids, am happy with my boys and whomever else comes to the party.
I run, ski, swim, bike and lift weights. I'm a great cook and love to entertain. I sing, and am currently looking into joining a band, something I've always wanted to do and now am pursuing.
I'm a republican with conservative to moderate views. Not overly political, I find that boorish. I get the paper for the coupons and I do not watch the news. I don't mind watching sports on tv especially if there are lots of people around then I don't have to watch. I would rather be brought to the event itself but even then I may not pay attention. The exception to that is UFC (Ultimate Fighting Championship) I LOVE this sport and no its not barbaric, its awesome!
I have a ton of great friends that have become even more dear to me throughout these last 6 months of craziness. I am their social director |
| about my fling |
I've found that my personality matches up much better with a man that is athletic. I like a man to be strong, not a meathead.. but capable physically.. I like a man to be a man. To know what he wants and to ask for it. Confident, smart, charasmatic, funny(goofy even) I like a man with a high risk tolerance.. not jumping out of planes.. but who understands that playing it safe can be a result of a lack of confidence. Must be social, have a lot of friends (good loyal friends that know the real you) Must love to travel, work out, spa, eat, drink,(never to excess of course) sleep..entertain, do the Holidays BIG!! friends and family mean the world to you. Must be ok with not having anymore kids, and be ok with the fact that I have two boys 50% of the time. If you have kids, be confident that I understand and embrace the concept. Must not be a workaholic, must know when to take a break and decompress. Know that I was married to an entrepreneur for 10 years (relationship for 12) and help to build that business during the time that I worked there. I get and appreciate driven, smart men who are not bound by limits.
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