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seeking: Men  interested in: Open To Relationship  
Membership:SILVER Member
Age/Gender: 37 year old Woman
Location: Raleigh , NC United States
Height: Ask me
Body Type: Average
Hair Color: Blonde
Eye Color: Brown
Religion: Christian
Languages: English
Income: Ask me
Profession: Ask me
Status: Divorced
about me
Hi, I am Jen. I have never been too good at describing myself, but I will give it a shot. I am a down-to-earth, honest, caring and true person. With me, what you see is what you get. My mama will tell you I am beautiful (I think she is biased lol), my sister will tell you I am the eternal smart-alec, and well, you will have to get to know me to know for sure. I am divorced. Was not my original plan way back when, but life has a habit of throwing curve balls and you just gotta dust yourself off after getting hit by one and try again. So here I am. I am me...what I mean by that is I try to live by the "what you see is what you get" philosophy. I am honest, loyal, caring and have a slightly warped sense of humor. I can not stand head games, they have no point. The picture of the chocolate lab is my Izzy. She thinks she is a 100 lb lap dog. The sweetest girl in the world, so yea, I hope you like dogs, because my girl is not going anywhere. :) If you want to know anything, just ask. I can not always guarantee you will like the answer, but hey I will answer :) I have a dog and two cats so anyone that is involved with me needs to like animals. I love all kinds of music, except for music that is degrading in words and context. I like most movies, yes even action but not a fan of gore. Love scary movies, just not the gory ones. I love to read, there is no greater escape than a book (and yes, I said book as in paper and binding not kindle). When I really need to recharge my batteries I like to go to the beach, have not been in a while, but it is still one of my favorite places to be. There is nothing like the sound of the ocean in the evening. My perfect evening is one spent with people that mean something to me. Whether it be hanging out at the house cooking, grilling, visiting or just hanging out. I work hard and value my free time. Oh and last but not least I love my coffee….got to have my coffee.
about my fling
So, if you have gotten this far, you are probably wondering what I am looking for in a man. I am looking for a man that brings a smile to my face whenever I think of him. Someone to walk through life beside me, as my partner, my confidant, and not try to change, push or pull me in ways that are his own, and not ours. In essence I am looking for (ok this old fashioned) my soul-mate. Does that make sense? I have been hurt in the past, and life is painful, but I am still hopeful to find that one true soul to match mine. Ok, so now for the “shallow” part of myself. I believe in honesty (that is an absolute MUST) so…if your picture is not a current representation of yourself , please don’t bother. Because, face it, we’re online and the first impression we get is from a picture, so an old picture is in essence a lie. I am also attracted to taller men (yea that is like 6’4” or taller). I am also not looking for a daddy, so do not bother contacting me if you are over 43 years old. Not being rude, just being real. *****UPDATE***** If you are not between the ages of 34 and 43, do not bother contacting me…I will not respond. If you are 5 foot anything, do not bother contacting me…I will not respond. Nothing against you, I am sure you are a nice person, but I prefer tall…. If you are African American or mixed race, do not bother contacting me….I will not respond. I have nothing against inter-racial dating, marriage or anything, but I have seen and experienced too much prejudice in my life that I made a conscious choice to stick with my “own race” as I would never want to risk putting someone I care about through any prejudice. If these statements make me seem like a witch, I am sorry. I am not, but I DO NOT play games and I do not want to start here in a profile. After all, this is your first impression of me, as your profile is my first impression of you.