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seeking: Men  interested in: Online Flirting, Open To Relationship  
Membership:SILVER Member
Age/Gender: 30 year old Woman
Location: Detroit , MI United States
Height: Ask me
Body Type: A few extra pounds
Hair Color: Brown
Eye Color: Brown
Race: Black, Middle Eastern, Native American, White
Religion: Other
Languages: Arabic, English, Japanese
Income: Less than $25K
Profession: Artistic
Status: Divorced
about me
First of all, let me just say that I'm not looking for a FLING, but friends first, then a decent relationship.I'm tired of all the games, so here it goes! I'm 30, single, and just plain SICK of A-holes who think I'm desperate enough to take them on because I've had a tragic past. I'm officially divorced and I'm a bit jaded, but ready to move on with my life. I lost a son from that marriage, over two years ago and it hurts, but, yes I am willing to eventually have kids someday. I want peace of mind and I'm old fashioned enough to believe that settling down and having a family will help with that immensely. Money means absolutely NOTHING to me. I may be unemployed at the moment, but that doesn't mean that a job and a car will automatically secure you a place in my life! I'm proud, and VERY honorable! I'm serious minded, but I love to laugh. I'm a big animal lover. I love to cook, and singing is my life. I don't mind being a medical assistant, because I love to help others. I'm a diabetic and I have an irregular heartbeat, but I'm willing to go work out or something and I'm not afraid to get out and dance. Oh, and I have the attention span of a toy poodle!!! But if you have good conversation skills, you have an excellent chance at holding my attention for more than five seconds! I do NOT do long distance relationships, so if you're from out of state, keep it moving! If you just want a 'Friends with Benefits' kind of deal, again, Keep It Moving! Don't waste my time! If you can't form a sentence in ENGLISH, get the heck off my radar! Any thugs, gangstas or pimp wannabes need not apply!!!! Also, I don't date anyone more than ten years older than me. And I definitely don't go for anyone more than five years younger! I have my reasons! I tend to be very blunt, cynical, and a downright worrier, but if you touch my heart, there's nothing I won't do for you. I do not trust easily, it must be earned. Same with respect. Life has taught me some hard lessons.
about my fling
First of all, those with no photos, or with 'discreet' photos will be deleted or passed over.I'm extremely cautious about guys with pictures that show muscles, but no face. Yes, you're hot, but is that all there is to you? I'm looking for an understanding type of guy, who calls me on my craziness but is sweet about it and inspires me to do better instead of criticizing! I live with and care for my elderly Father, and my mother is gone, but family is my life, and you should understand that! I'm not a Christian, but I don't mind if you're one. I usually look for the guy to make the first move, I'm old fashioned that way too. But if you're interesting enough, I may pursue you. I want a friend first, but what I need is a partner to walk through life with. Funny, and Intelligent is a MUST. I want someone sweet, on the attractive side, but if you're TOO pretty, you'll scare me to death. Here's a hint: I like Taller men, who smell fabulous!Odd, I know! I'm a sucker for a guy with nice muscles, but if all your brain cells are dead and you're conceited about it, get LOST! LOL I like my men non-controlling, and generous in the bedroom.I can't stress this enough: I'm not saying that I'm celibate, or that I'm not interested in sex myself. I don't blame men for wanting sex, I blame them for wanting nothing MORE than that. I'm just saying there should be MORE. I'm tired of the ones that want to be 'Just friends' and aren't brave enough to step up and put their emotions on the line, like most women are. Somewhere between 'F**K Buddy and 'Just One Of The Guys', there should be a compromise called 'RELATIONSHIP', where both man and woman get what they want! I want the whole package, not just what's between a guy's legs. Is that asking too much? I think NOT! Any man who's actually into making love and takes his time is all right with me! Anything else you want to know? Ask me yourself!!! (Do not use my profile, photos, etc for any independent studies or otherwise. You do NOT have my