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WHEN ENTERING THE TITILLATING WORLD OF
SWINGING, THERE IS A WHOLE NEW LANGUAGE
TO LEARN. GETTING A HANDLE ON SOME OF THE
MORE COMMON TERMS WILL HELP EASE YOU IN.
LINGO
BUT, THESE RARE
UNICORNS CAN
DETERMINE THE
SUCCESS OF A
SWINGERS'
PARTY.
Single people rarely attend
swingers' clubs or parties [2].
SINGLE MEN ARE
 OFTEN TURNED
    AWAY
 SINGLE WOMEN ARE SO
RARE THEY ARE REFERRED
 TO AS "UNICORNS." [3].
SWINGERS OFTEN REFER TO THEIR
SOCIAL SEX SCENE AS "THE LIFESTYLE." [1].
This usually refers to heterosexual
couples that swap with other couples
for a variety of sexual activities -
everything from canoodling to
actual sexual intercourse.
    ALTHOUGH SWINGERS BY AND LARGE TEND TO BE HETEROSEXUAL, SOME
CONSIDER THEMSELVES BISEXUAL--OR AT LEAST BI-CURIOUS--DURING A PARTY.
If you're heading to your
first party, you may
notice there are different
levels of bisexuality that
occur.
   SOCIAL
BISEXUALS
interact with the
same sex, but do
  not practice
bisexuality as a
  lifestyle [3].
   PASSIVE
BISEXUALS
enjoy attention from
  the same sex, but
  do not reciprocate
    the attention [3].
Bisexual couples can take part in threesomes, and there are some
acronyms you may want to know before your swinging begins[3].
SOMETIMES MULTIPLE COUPLES AND SINGLES CAN CREATE A PARTY WITHIN
  A PARTY. THAT'S CALLED AN "ORGY", REFERRING TO SEXUAL CONTACT
                    BETWEEN 4 OR MORE PEOPLE.
You may be wondering how threesomes
or orgies occur when swinging usually
consists of couples and the rare single
person mixed in, but add "Hot Wives"
to your swinging lingo list and you will
understand.
     There are also different levels of
swinging; each comes with its own label.
   You may find one that you associate
  with, which will help you find a party or
   another couple that will be a good fit.

         These levels range from
SIMPLY WATCHING THE
ACTION, TO ACTUAL SEX
WITH OTHER COUPLES.
HOT WIVES ARE WOMEN WHO
TAKE PART IN SWINGING
ACTIVITIES [2], WHILE THEIR
HUSBANDS ENJOY WATCHING
OR EVEN JUST LISTENING TO
HER SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS
BEHIND A CLOSED DOOR.
VOYEURISM
Enjoys
watching
others
SOFT SWAP
Switch partners for cuddling,
kissing or oral sex only [3].
Sexual intercourse with your
partner only
FULL SWAP
Partners swap
for sex
EXHIBITIONISM
Enjoys being
watched
ACTIV
PARTICIPATION
Engages in sexual
acts with others
FINDING
SOMEONE
ONLINE
NOW THAT YOU'VE LEARNED THE BASIC LINGO,
ITS TIME TO OPEN UP THAT COMPUTER AND
START SEARCHING FOR SWINGERS, AS WELL
AS PARTIES OR CLUBS YOU'D LIKE TO ATTEND.
The Internet can
be a scary place,
especially when
you're looking for
sexual adventures.
There are forums and
message boards available for
the swinging lifestyle, such as
swinglifestyle.com and
Kasidie.com; however, many
times there are no safety or
privacy regulations in place.
Scrolling through
Craiglist postings or
personal ads and
Reddit message
boards can leave
you without safety,
security, or any
guarantees.
Online moderators
and customer
service agents are
available 24/7.
They are online to verify
that only real users access
their site and keep their
loyal users safe.
A NEW SOCIAL NETWORK CALLED
FLING.COM IS GEARED TOWARDS FINDING
THE PERFECT SEXUAL SWINGING
ENCOUNTER AND PRIDES ITSELF ON SAFETY
AND PRIVACY [5].
The peace of mind you receive from
Fling.com allows you to interact and search
safely to find the perfect swinging scene.
Besides safety, Fling.com uses the best
of many everyday social networks we
are all accustomed to,
WHERE YOU CAN:
LIVE VIDEO CHAT TO
SEE EACH OTHER IN
PERSON BEFORE THE
FIRST MEET-UP
MESSAGE WITH
POTENTIAL
SWINGING
COUPLES
SHARE
SEXY
PICS
Swinging can be an
exciting (and intimidating)
adventure.
There is new
lingo to learn, people to
meet, and encounters
to navigate.
When venturing into this lifestyle for the first time, no one likes to feel like "the new kid
on the block." With our Beginner's Guide to Swinging, you can find where to meet
like-minded people, how to strike up a conversation with potential playmates, and how
to handle all the social swinging scenes like a confident Casanova.
WHERE TO
MEET IN PERSON
ONCE YOU'VE FOUND A SWINGING COUPLE
ONLINE OR READ ABOUT THE NEXT SWINGERS'
EVENT, YOUR NEXT STEP WILL TAKE YOUR
FANTASIES INTO THE REAL WORLD.
An off-premises club is still a
social gathering for swingers,
but couples will leave to go
to another location for the
sexual activities.
THERE ARE TWO TYPES OF
SWINGERS' CLUBS [1].
An off-premises club is where
sexual acts can take place in
the club.
There are usually designated
play areas, which can be for
private couples or groups.
There are some options where to meet other
swingers in person, and many times you will
either find yourself at a swingers' club, a
bar or restaurant, or a house party.
BOTH ON- AND OFF-PREMISES CLUBS
CAN HAVE DIFFERENT CLUB LAYOUTS.
The nightclub scene is dark and intimate;
whereas a sauna club layout has
changing rooms and lockers, Jacuzzis,
and a bar area.
Both clubs usually carry dress codes,
limit single men, and have couples-only
nights and areas within the club.
Although some swingers' clubs are
invitation-only, once you get in most are
very open-minded and will welcome you
to interact and enjoy your sexual
adventures.
BEST
PRACTICES
SWINGING COMES WITH A SET OF UNWRITTEN
RULES OR PRACTICES THAT YOU SHOULD BE
SURE TO FOLLOW TO HAVE THE BEST
EXPERIENCE POSSIBLE.
Make sure you and your partner
are in a serious relationship and
both are comfortable venturing
into the swinging lifestyle.

Before your first party or
club experience be sure
to share your desires
and set your limits
with your partner [2].
Sometimes, people try to
pull a fast one by bringing
an escort or someone to
get them in the door
[1].
THIS IS A BIG NO-NO IN
THE SWINGING WORLD
CREATE CODE WORDS
AND SECRET BODY
LANGUAGE
It's a good idea to





to communicate with
one another.
and will usually get
you kicked out of
the club.
Remember, once you get into the club, you don't have to commit to anything.
You can always just socialize and go home if you want.
SPEAKING OF SOCIALIZING...
Don't be afraid to make new friends! Be open and friendly,
and if you want to pass on certain couples that approach you
and your partner, let them down nicely and simply move on.
If you're ready to approach a potential
couple and start swinging here are a
few tips [2]:
APPROACH THE SAME
GENDER AS YOURSELF.


BE POLITE, DIRECT,
AND TO THE POINT
INTRODUCE ALL FOUR PEOPLE
AND GET TO KNOW ONE
ANOTHER

IF THEY TURN YOU DOWN,
ACCEPT IT AND MOVE ON
If you're the wife, talk to the
other couple's wife, not the
husband, and vice-versa.
Cleanliness and
protection is
another topic you
and your partner
should discuss
and take care of
before attending
your first
swingers party.
SINCE YOU WILL BE INTERACTING SEXUALLY WITH
OTHER PEOPLE IN THE SWINGING LIFESTYLE,
REMEMBER CLEAN HYGIENE IS OF UTMOST
IMPORTANCE.
Keep a close trim (or shave
completely) in the private regions,
as well as the armpits and chest [2].

It is up to you, your partners
and your consenting swinging
partners to determine what
protection you want to use.
YOU CAN DEMAND OTHERS
TO USE PROTECTION TOO [2].
MOST IMPORTANTLY,
HAVE FUN! HAPPY
ADVENTURES.
1 http://swapscene.com/index.php?pageid=articles9
2 http://www.bacchuspartyny.com/beginners.php
3 http://cltampa.com/dailyloaf/archives/2009/06/16/swinger-lingo-
defined-soccer-moms-perspective#.UgAMQmQ4XvM

4 http://www.24-7pressrelease.com/press-release/kasidiecom-
wins-the-award-as-the-best-swingers-website-for-the
-third-year-in-a-row-209546.php

5 www.fling.com

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